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Ask Krys: How to Have Sex in the Great Outdoors
E-mail Bag: Question 4
Dear Krys,
I began a relationship, and it’s been amazing. I feel like she has had such an adventurous sex life and I would like to keep it as fresh as I can. Is there any advice you could offer for having sex in the great outdoors?
Thanks,
J
Dear J,
Firstly, congrats on the new relationship! That is such an exciting place to be in life, and I can happily say that I am finally in the same boat! I will absolutely get to the part about the do’s and don’ts of having sex in the great outdoors, but there is something that I want to touch upon first. And, that is the adventurous sex life part. Keeping things fresh is all well and good, but please, oh pretty please, make sure that this is something that she wants!
Coming out of a place whereby I have had a multitude of incredibly varied experiences in the bedroom, I know how many people said they felt intimidated by me, or felt like they needed to try extra hard to keep me satisfied, and excited. And yes, that is a noble pursuit for any couple to have, so long as it is actually what both parties want. I don’t think it is possible to keep sex fresh forever, and from my experience that becomes more of an exhausting burden rather than…