How Do You Find Like Minded Non-Monogamous People?

You’ve done the research, asked the right questions, and feel excited and perhaps a bit nervous to start meeting new people. You’ve discussed boundaries, thought about what your hard limits are, and have begun laying the foundation for incredible communication with your partner. Or if you’re currently solo, you understand the importance of laying a good foundation for when you meet someone. But how do you actually find like minded non-monogamous people?

Whether you are looking to swing, date, find new friends with benefits, or add someone new in a long-term capacity, the honest truth is that Google is not always your friend (as you have probably already figured out). Being non-monogamous is still taboo, and it is probably not something that you are willing to put on your Facebook status, even if the possibility exists that you might “get lucky”. So, with a little discretion in mind, let us look at some practical approaches to finding non-monogamous people.

Classified Ads

When my partner and I first decided that we wanted to go beyond an open relationship and find some sexy couples, we were lucky enough to have access to Craigslist. Creating a “looking for” classified ad as it turns out was great practice in honing in on just what you and your partner are seeking. Not only that, but it flexes the…