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Krys Ghislaine
Krys Ghislaine

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Jul 11

Ask Krys: CNM Relationship Model

E-mail Bag: Question 7 My Blueprint for a Man in a Sexless Marriage Dear Krys, I read your article on Medium “Creating Ground Rules and Boundaries in Non-Monogamy”. I’m a 70 year old African American male in a sexless marriage. We just celebrated our 30 year wedding anniversary and we’re happily married even though after menopause my wife went from low libido to…

Relationship Advice

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Ask Krys: CNM Relationship Model
Ask Krys: CNM Relationship Model
Relationship Advice

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Jun 20

Exploring the Complexities of Love: The Sex Edition

Continuing My Exploration of Love — It’s a funny thing, the word sex. Whenever I, as a sex positive person, write about sex, I get faced with an onslaught of dirty questions, and inappropriate propositions. It’s almost as if, the word sex itself, short circuits some part of the brain, and nothing that follows matters. Hence…

Sex

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Exploring the Complexities of Love: The Sex Edition
Exploring the Complexities of Love: The Sex Edition
Sex

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Apr 4

Ask Krys: Cheating and Non-Monogamy

E-mail Bag: Question 6 Dear Krys, What do you consider cheating? And furthermore, how is non-monogamy any different from cheating? Isn’t it just an excuse that covers up cheating? Sincerely, A Regular Reader Dear Regular Reader, Thank you for asking both the question I get the most often, the question I dread, and the…

Cheating

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Ask Krys: Cheating and Non-Monogamy
Ask Krys: Cheating and Non-Monogamy
Cheating

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Mar 24

The Relationship Trap I Fell into in Non-Monogamy

And Why I Sometimes Feel Like a Fraud — I have spent a fair bit of time researching, reading, and actually living a non-monogamous lifestyle, and I am here to admit, I fell into a trap that I have struggled to admit that I was in. Deep breath… here I go. I thought that everything that was wrong with…

Nonmonogamy

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The Relationship Trap I Fell into in Non-Monogamy
The Relationship Trap I Fell into in Non-Monogamy
Nonmonogamy

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Mar 12

Ask Krys: Outdoor Sex, and the Whole Fantasy VS Reality Conundrum

E-mail Bag: Question 5 Having answered “how to have sex in the great outdoors” this next question seems like a perfectly timed follow up, if not a little bittersweet because I am still stuck in a Canadian winter wonderland. Dear Krys, I wanted to know how you felt about the fear/anxiety of getting caught…

Sex Positive

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Ask Krys: Outdoor Sex, and the Whole Fantasy VS Reality Conundrum
Ask Krys: Outdoor Sex, and the Whole Fantasy VS Reality Conundrum
Sex Positive

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Nov 29, 2022

Love Explored: A Personal and Perhaps Practical Look into the Complexities of Love

Open Relationships — I have been wanting to write a segment on all the forms of human love the exist for quite a while. In part due to my time spent in the non-monogamous world which allowed me to explore a plethora of ways that humans show their affection, and sometimes just simply…

Relationships

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Love Explored: A Personal and Perhaps Practical Look into the Complexities of Love
Love Explored: A Personal and Perhaps Practical Look into the Complexities of Love
Relationships

6 min read


Oct 31, 2022

Ask Krys: How to Have Sex in the Great Outdoors

E-mail Bag: Question 4 — Dear Krys, I began a relationship, and it’s been amazing. I feel like she has had such an adventurous sex life and I would like to keep it as fresh as I can. Is there any advice you could offer for having sex in the great outdoors? Thanks, J Dear…

Sex

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Ask Krys: How to Have Sex in the Great Outdoors
Ask Krys: How to Have Sex in the Great Outdoors
Sex

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Oct 18, 2022

5 Dating Differences I Discovered When I Shifted From Dating Non-Monogamously to Monogamously

AKA Dating Red Flags — It should come as no surprise that dating in the world of monogamy and non-monogamy are going to have their differences. When you are open to multiple people playing a role in your life your expectations are not the same, especially in comparison to when you are looking for that…

Relationships

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5 Dating Differences I Discovered When I Shifted From Dating Non-Monogamously to Monogamously
5 Dating Differences I Discovered When I Shifted From Dating Non-Monogamously to Monogamously
Relationships

8 min read


Sep 29, 2022

Ask Krys: The How Do You Date Question?!?

E-mail Bag: Question 3 — Dear Krys, How do people you are dating react when they learn about your blog and your non-monogamous relationship past? And what kind of conversations do you have? And what sort of responses do you get? And…? Sincerely, So many people especially in person! Dear People, Overall, the people who…

Ask Me Anything

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Ask Krys: The How Do You Date Question?!?
Ask Krys: The How Do You Date Question?!?
Ask Me Anything

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Sep 19, 2022

5 Books That Shaped Who I am in Relationships and Beyond

And Surprisingly, They Are Not Relationship Books — A little while ago, I came across a post by E.L. Byrne, in which she listed out a few books that changed her views on Relationships and Sex. Of course, this got my brain thinking about that very thing. What books have really shaped how I view relationships, sex, and…

Relationships

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5 Books That Shaped Who I am in Relationships and Beyond
5 Books That Shaped Who I am in Relationships and Beyond
Relationships

6 min read

Krys Ghislaine

Krys Ghislaine

335 Followers

Krys is a sex positive blogger, writer, and a lover of craft beer. breakingawayfrommonogamy.com.

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