Continuing My Exploration of Love — It’s a funny thing, the word sex. Whenever I, as a sex positive person, write about sex, I get faced with an onslaught of dirty questions, and inappropriate propositions. It’s almost as if, the word sex itself, short circuits some part of the brain, and nothing that follows matters. Hence…

E-mail Bag: Question 6 Dear Krys, What do you consider cheating? And furthermore, how is non-monogamy any different from cheating? Isn’t it just an excuse that covers up cheating? Sincerely, A Regular Reader Dear Regular Reader, Thank you for asking both the question I get the most often, the question I dread, and the…

And Why I Sometimes Feel Like a Fraud — I have spent a fair bit of time researching, reading, and actually living a non-monogamous lifestyle, and I am here to admit, I fell into a trap that I have struggled to admit that I was in. Deep breath… here I go. I thought that everything that was wrong with…

E-mail Bag: Question 5 Having answered “how to have sex in the great outdoors” this next question seems like a perfectly timed follow up, if not a little bittersweet because I am still stuck in a Canadian winter wonderland. Dear Krys, I wanted to know how you felt about the fear/anxiety of getting caught…

Open Relationships — I have been wanting to write a segment on all the forms of human love the exist for quite a while. In part due to my time spent in the non-monogamous world which allowed me to explore a plethora of ways that humans show their affection, and sometimes just simply…

E-mail Bag: Question 4 — Dear Krys, I began a relationship, and it’s been amazing. I feel like she has had such an adventurous sex life and I would like to keep it as fresh as I can. Is there any advice you could offer for having sex in the great outdoors? Thanks, J Dear…

AKA Dating Red Flags — It should come as no surprise that dating in the world of monogamy and non-monogamy are going to have their differences. When you are open to multiple people playing a role in your life your expectations are not the same, especially in comparison to when you are looking for that…

E-mail Bag: Question 3 — Dear Krys, How do people you are dating react when they learn about your blog and your non-monogamous relationship past? And what kind of conversations do you have? And what sort of responses do you get? And…? Sincerely, So many people especially in person! Dear People, Overall, the people who…

And Surprisingly, They Are Not Relationship Books — A little while ago, I came across a post by E.L. Byrne, in which she listed out a few books that changed her views on Relationships and Sex. Of course, this got my brain thinking about that very thing. What books have really shaped how I view relationships, sex, and…