Nov 29, 2022Member-onlyLove Explored: A Personal and Perhaps Practical Look into the Complexities of LoveOpen Relationships — I have been wanting to write a segment on all the forms of human love the exist for quite a while. In part due to my time spent in the non-monogamous world which allowed me to explore a plethora of ways that humans show their affection, and sometimes just simply…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Oct 31, 2022Member-onlyAsk Krys: How to Have Sex in the Great OutdoorsE-mail Bag: Question 4 — Dear Krys, I began a relationship, and it’s been amazing. I feel like she has had such an adventurous sex life and I would like to keep it as fresh as I can. Is there any advice you could offer for having sex in the great outdoors? Thanks, J Dear…Sex3 min readSex3 min read
Oct 18, 2022Member-only5 Dating Differences I Discovered When I Shifted From Dating Non-Monogamously to MonogamouslyAKA Dating Red Flags — It should come as no surprise that dating in the world of monogamy and non-monogamy are of going to have their differences. When you are open to multiple people playing a role in your life your expectations are not the same in comparison to when you are looking for that…Relationships8 min readRelationships8 min read
Sep 29, 2022Member-onlyAsk Krys: The How Do You Date Question?!?E-mail Bag: Question 3 — Dear Krys, How do people you are dating react when they learn about your blog and your non-monogamous relationship past? And what kind of conversations do you have? And what sort of responses do you get? And…? Sincerely, So many people especially in person! Dear People, Overall, the people who…Ask Me Anything4 min readAsk Me Anything4 min read
Sep 19, 2022Member-only5 Books That Shaped Who I am in Relationships and BeyondAnd Surprisingly, They Are Not Relationship Books — A little while ago, I came across a post by E.L. Byrne, in which she listed out a few books that changed her views on Relationships and Sex. Of course, this got my brain thinking about that very thing. What books have really shaped how I view relationships, sex, and…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Aug 30, 2022Member-onlyAsk Krys: Spaces in BetweenE-mail Bag: Question 2 — Dear Krys, Have you ever experienced or stumbled upon exploring the space between what we typically call platonic friendship and sexual pleasure/intimacy? I do NOT mean what society typically calls friends with benefits/FWB or booty calls. What I’m talking about is the spaces between cuddling or hugging a friend…Ask Krys5 min readAsk Krys5 min read
Aug 21, 2022Member-onlyThe Emotional DropAnd How it Affects Everyone, Not Just the Non-Monogamous — There is a phenomenon that people in non-monogamy are quite familiar with (at least in my many conversations with people), and that is the emotional drop that occurs after a really great experience, usually sexual in nature. If you’re in a monogamous relationship you can be forgiven for never hearing…Mental Health8 min readMental Health8 min read
Jun 24, 2022Member-onlyMoney: The Only Way to Grant Abortion Rights for AllI wrote a tongue in cheek blog many years ago whereby I contrived that banning vasectomies was the only way to level the playing field so all humans had access to body autonomy. It was a playful warning, in light of woman losing body autonomy. Well, unfortunately the time for…Roe Vs Wade4 min readRoe Vs Wade4 min read
Jun 22, 2022Member-onlyAsk Krys: E-Mail BagAs a blogger, writer, and explorer of all things relationships, my portfolio is almost exclusively my musings, adventures, and things that fascinate me. Today though, I am trying something a little outside of my comfort zone: answering a real e-mail from a real reader. If more people write in (ghislaine9999@gmail.com)…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read
Apr 12, 2022Member-onlyBody Positivity and Becoming Comfortable NakedHow Non-Monogamy Gave Me a Crash Course in Body Awareness and Confidence — No matter who you are, or what you look like, there is one commonality we all experience, and that is this pervasive myth, that our bodies are just not good enough the way they are. We all struggle with what we look like, and to the point of this article…Sex Positive10 min readSex Positive10 min read
